You may feel total devastation over an affair being revealed, be in a place of constant fighting or bickering or perhaps you feel intense loneliness, anxiety or despair. Perhaps you struggle to communicate, have sex and intimacy problems, or fear you’re growing apart.

In couples therapy Shan will coach you into speaking to each other in a way where you have safe conversations that are free of blame, or criticism which is a pattern many couples get stuck in. So this really helps each person feel heard and understood in a way that’s not been possible for them to do at home.

Through having safe conversations Shan will help you to work through all the core issues in your relationship so you can repair what has happened, come back into connection and get the love you really want.

Areas of interest: Conflict, Communication difficulties, Separation, Divorce, Affairs, Same Sex Relationships, Co-Parenting, Fertility issues, Loneliness, Insecurity, Autism, ADHD, Getting Married, New Relationships.

Shan uses Imago Couples Therapy, CBT, Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy, Therapeutic Coaching and Somatic Practices in her work.